when I readed the comment #88, I hope she or he stops writting "talk too much" on the report card. And don't laugh in front of her. You don't know how much it hurts her feeling. I was the one. I started talking less and less after "talk too much in the class" on the report card when I was at the elementary school. I talk less that doesn't mean I got more attention in the class. I had lost interest in the class. Because I talk less and less, I don't know how to fight for my right by verbal now.The more she talks,the greater she will. Just lead her read more books,listen to her and talk to her. Explain to her what's right and what's wrong. The people who likes to talk is more happy, healthier (mind) than the quiet one I believe.