She's saying turn my carseat around! I should be rear facing until im 35lbs! Keep me safe mommy and daddy! I know you love me!.... and it is perfectly safe for their feet to touch the back of the seat when in a rear facing position. It has never been known to break legs or hips when in an accident. But what would you rather mend broken legs or a broken neck? You even went out and bought one of the most expensive carseats, so you must want to keep your daughter safe...right? Do the right thing. You'll be happy you did!